Sometimes it`s helpful to get the opinion of someone who is on the outside looking in at your life. Sigmund Freud would probably tell you that what`s going on is a battle between your id and ego. You`re torn between mastery of your art and gratification of your feelings. Ask yourself whether you seek short- or long-term satisfaction. You can have some fun debating the issues at hand, but the longer you hem and haw, the more foolish you look.