Drastic times call for drastic measures, Cancer. You will not change an old, entrenched system simply by shedding a few tears. Slow down and tune in. Your best method for coping is to be in touch with your feelings but not to take anything too personally. It might be a good idea to get an outsider`s opinion on the situation before you proceed. Look for an unbiased stranger who may be able to step in and shed some light on your predicament. Tonight, it might be best to decline an invitation from a coworker.